The Dangers of Men Staring: When It Becomes Harassment

Staring is a common form of harassment that can have a real impact on the people who are targeted. This blog post discusses the dangers of staring, how to deal with it, and how we can all do our part to stop it.

Have you ever been in a situation where someone was staring at you? Maybe you were at the grocery store, or on the bus, or just walking down the street. And the staring was just...too much. It made you feel uncomfortable, or even unsafe.

If so, you're not alone. Staring is a common form of harassment, and it can have a real impact on the people who are targeted.

What is staring?

Staring is when someone looks at you for a long period of time, without breaking eye contact. It can be done in a way that is meant to be threatening or intimidating, or it can simply be done out of curiosity.

When does staring become harassment?

Staring becomes harassment when it makes the person being stared at feel uncomfortable or unsafe. This can happen even if the person who is staring does not intend to make the other person feel uncomfortable.

What are the dangers of staring?

Staring can have a number of negative effects on the people who are targeted. It can make them feel:

• Uncomfortable

• Unsafe

• Threatened

• Intimidated

• Self-conscious

• Ashamed

• Angry

In some cases, staring can even lead to more serious problems, such as:

• Anxiety

• Depression

• Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)

What can you do if you are being stared at?

If you are being stared at, there are a few things you can do:

• Try to ignore the person. This may be difficult, but it is often the best way to deal with the situation.

• If you can, try to move to a different location. This will help to put some distance between you and the person who is staring.

• If the person is following you, or if you feel unsafe, you can call the police.

It is important to remember that you do not have to put up with unwanted attention. If someone is making you feel uncomfortable, you have the right to say something or to take steps to protect yourself.

How can we stop staring?

We can all do our part to stop staring. Here are a few tips:

• Be aware of your surroundings. When you are in public, be mindful of the people around you.

• Avoid staring at people for long periods of time. If you do find yourself staring, quickly break eye contact.

• If you are curious about someone, try to find a way to approach them in a friendly and respectful way.

By following these tips, we can help to create a more respectful and inclusive environment for everyone.